Learn how women communicate

We all know that this world is full of women, but

all are different. It is said that it is very

hard to understand women that's why here are some

true statements about how they communicate that

you can learn from and see how it applies to your

girlfriend, wife or other woman you know.

Women don’t need to have a particular reason to

talk; they like to talk because it creates

connection.

So they always want to have near them someone who

wants to listen and talk with them. Also, women

use talking as a way to release tension. There

are a lot of conflicts inside a couple about

communication because, for women, talking

something out over and over again eventually

dissipates the stuck energy around it.

They hate being told to get over it, that you don'

t have time to listen. If rambling conversation

drives you crazy or you don’t have a lot of time

let her know what time you do have and give her

the attention. You should listen to her without

trying to find a point or solution.

Women express their thinking and feeling process

out loud. Hearing themselves talk helps women get

clear on what is going on inside of them. The

process of expressing their thoughts out loud

actually allows them to figure out what they’re

thinking and feeling. So you should be a good

listener and show that you are interested in what

she thinks and feel. They don't like the men

which enjoy having a specific purpose for the

conversation.

Women communicate with details. They love details;

that’s why a woman’s interest in the details

about your life is not an attempt to interrogate

you or invade your privacy and their habit of

sharing the details of their life is not an

attempt to take up too much of your time. Rather,

they are trying to connect. If you want to

surprise her try to make some remarks using some

details for example the way she is dressed, the

color of her eyes...

Women minimize how upset they are. In order to

keep the peace, women often don’t express how

upset they really are. They don’t stand up for

themselves, and they downplay the severity of

their dissatisfaction.

When they said that are alright but still look

upset, they are still upset. If you take the time

to try to get a woman to say what she really

feels, that attempt alone will actually make her

feel better because she knows you cared enough to

try.

They don't like the men which, in order to avoid

a confrontation take her answer literally and

leave it when she says that is fine but still

look upset. They love to insist and find out what

she really think and try to make her feel better.

Show her that you care and it is important to you

her happiness.

In general, they like to have a lot of friends (I

mean girlfriends) with whom to share all their

thoughts, dreams and secrets which a man would

never understand. Most of them don't feel secure

to have an open talk with their partner and to be

completely honest like she is with her friends.

So women are well aware that most of the time

they are a profound mystery to men.